DOES SIZE MATTER
Penis size has been mistakenly equated with sexual
prowess in our culture. Interestingly, this mistake is made by men more often
than women. Many myths exist about the relationship between penis size and other
parts of
a man's body including feet, nose and fingers. Jokes about
penis size abound needlessly because, simply put, size has nothing to do with
sexual satisfaction or manliness. Yet it's difficult to convince many men that
this is so.
Why the Myths Persist
Some people have thought
that large penises are more psychologically arousing than smaller penises. One
study took a look at this idea and found that size didn't matter. Although the
male and female subjects in the study were
clearly aroused by the
erotic stories they were given to read, there was no relationship between the
degree of arousal and the size of the penises described in the
stories.
Men can convince themselves of the sexual importance of large
penises by tending toward sexual partners who are highly attracted to penises of
a certain dimension. While there's no point in arguing with someone's turn-on,
I've always been amazed at the wide cultural acceptance of this tyranny of
size.
The Facts
Several things are often forgotten when it
comes to fucking. First, the vagina is a very elastic environment through which
a baby can pass, yet it's one that easily retains a tampon. In other words, it
snugly accommodates the entity it surrounds.
Second, men and women give
the vagina way more credit for sensitivity than is reasonable. The most
sensitive part of the vagina is the part that is closest to the outside of a
woman's body. Four inches will cover that. Minor surgery without anesthetic can
be conducted on the inner part of a woman's vagina without discomfort. That's a
big clue about just how much sensation women have deep inside where large
penises are supposed to reach.
Third, about three-quarters of women
don't reach orgasm by intercourse unless they have simultaneous clitoral
stimulation -- no matter what the size of the inserting body part.
The
Locker Room Tyranny
Many men feel quite content with the size of their
penis when erect, but are uncomfortable when it's flaccid in places like the
locker room. Some of a man's anxiety might be relieved if he knew the following:
Penises that appear small when flaccid grow a great deal more in size when erect
than those that are larger when flaccid. Many men would also feel less concerned
about locker room impressions if they understood that just as a man's sense of
smell or his eyesight are not dependent on the size of his nose and eyes,
neither is his sexual capacity based on the size of his genitals.
Still
Bothered?
Here's a tip to maximize flaccid penis size. In a locker room
setting, take a hot shower. A warm body temperature will cause a man's penis to
be about as large as it can be in an unaroused state. So don't finish off
showers with a cold rinse. That will draw both the penis and testicles up close
to the body for warmth, making them appear smaller.
Also, recognize
that some men concerned about their penis size may be functioning under old
psychological issues that are needlessly guiding their way of thinking. In that
regard, therapy can be very helpful, especially if they have feelings they'd
like to change. Wealth matters to some people and not so much to others.
Athletic ability can be crucial to some and ignored by most. To some, a large
penis suggests a kind of strength that is attractive to them. But the meaning
they give to it is just that -- their meaning.
Additional
Comments:
What causes the woman pain is the tip of the penis hitting
the back wall of the cervix. Remember that the length of the relaxed or
unexcited vagina is about four inches. Research has shown that when a woman is
sexually excited the vagina can extend to three times its length. You do the
math.