LASTING LONGER
One common goal amongst virtually all guys is to
last longer during sexual
intercourse. Unfortunately, most men can’t
last as long as they would like
and feel inadequate because of it. The
first thing that needs to be
understood is that the state of mind a
person is in has a huge effect on
their sexual performance. Getting all
uptight and worried is going to do you
no good; neither is having a
partner that gets really angry about it. Both
parties need to work
together to improve the situation, and the most
important thing is to
stay positive.
The first principle behind the techniques and
suggestions listed below is the
man’s ability to know his own body. By
understanding how his body works and
how his excitement rises, he
should be able to learn how to pace himself
better. It is key to know
when to slow down to allow your excitement to drop
enough so that you
can “re-group” and then pick up the pace again. The second
principle
has to do with decreasing the sensitivity of the penis. By
decreasing
the sensitivity, it will take more stimulation to achieve
the
excitement necessary for climax. The following techniques and
suggestions
should help boost his sexual stamina, but they are not
miracle cures, it will
take patience and the right attitude to make
things better.
Start & Stop Technique
The primary principle of
this technique is to stimulate the penis until near
ejaculation, and
then stop stimulating to allow the level of excitement to
drop. This
exercise can be performed alone, or with a partner, and should
be
repeated 3 to 5 times per session. After 2-6 weeks of using this
technique
you should notice an improvement in your sexual stamina and
will eventually
not even have to use it to outlast your
partner.
Squeeze Technique
Right before you feel you are about to
ejaculate, approximately three or four
strokes away, stop stimulating
and squeeze the base of your penis by wrapping
your thumb and index
finger around it. Apply firm pressure, focusing on the
urethra, the
tube running along the underside of the penis. This lessens the
tension
and holds back the ejaculatory response. Be sure to apply pressure
a
few strokes before ejaculating … if you wait too long, it may be too
late!
You should be able to apply this technique anywhere along the
shaft of the
penis, as long as it squeezes the
urethra.
Regular Masturbation
A great method for boosting sexual
stamina and releasing sexual tension is
regular masturbation. By
masturbating more often, you can train yourself to
become more used to
the stimulation. As you get more and more used to it, it
should start
taking you progressively longer to climax.
Wearing Condoms
Many
couples have claimed that wearing condoms significantly reduces
the
stimulation of intercourse for both partners, but especially the
male. If you
are not already using condoms to protect against STD's and
pregnancy, try
wearing them to increase your stamina. If necessary,
consider wearing a
thicker condom, it should make a large difference in
the amount of
stimulation that you feel.
Sex Toys
Following
the same line of logic as in “Regular Masturbation” above, you can
use
sex toys to help you become more “immune” to the pleasure. Sex
simulators
are recommended over regular vibrators, but both should
work. The Robo Suck 2
is a great toy that can bring the best of men to
their knees; it sucks,
strokes, and vibrates all at once. If the $65
(USD) price tag is a little too
much, have a look at toy stores to find
a product that fits your budget
better.